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How
to Select a Coach
Finding a personal coach, whether
you're looking for a "life" coach or "business" coach, is a little
like finding a new dentist or doctor. Here are a few things to think
about to get you on your way.
- Referrals work! Begin
by asking people you trust whom they work with or whom they know
who works with someone they like. Your friends and colleagues
have probably heard of someone you might connect with.
- Trust your intuition.
What's of paramount importance is how you feel when you talk to
the person. Do you get a good feeling talking to the person?
- Reflect. Ask yourself
what you'd like to get out of a coaching relationship.
- What are your
goals?
- Are you at an
inflection point in your life?
- What are the biggest
changes you want out of your life right now?
- What expectations
do you have about coaching?
- Prepare questions
in advance of meeting with a potential coach. What these are will
depend on what you want out of the relationship. How will you
and the coach know that the coaching relationship has been successful?
What could you learn from this person?
- It's always a good
idea to ask a potential coach what his or her background is that
qualifies them to be a coach. Then again, not all good coaches
are certified and not all certified coaches are good. Regardless
of credentials, a prospective coach should be able to tell you
what training and experience has prepared them to be a coach.
- Get references. Your
potential coach should have the names and contact information
of people he or she has worked with successfully. Contact these
people and ask them what the relationship has done for them.
- Ask the potential
coach to tell you about their coaching style and methods. Beware
of coaches whose methodology and approach are described using
the latest buzzwords and catchphrases ("I'm a holistic healer
who uses macro and micro integral transformation to trend future
openings and gaps."). Rather, a coaching model should be clear
and direct.
- Ask yourself if the
coach's background, expertise, and experience match your needs.
A coach whose primary area of expertise lies in entrepreneur ship
will probably not help you much if you're looking to better navigate
the ins and outs of your current job with a large corporation.
- Ask specific questions
about fees, confidentiality, policies, etc. Coaches offer their
services at widely varying rates, depending on the experience
level, geographical area, credentials, etc. Make sure you have
a clear understanding about what's considered confidential and
when.
- If you have a comfortable
feeling about the coach and about the potential benefits of working
with him or her, ask for a free coaching session. Most coaches
will offer a free half-hour session with a potential client. Although
it's not the same as a "regular" coaching session, it will give
you an idea of what to expect and what the coach's style is.
-John
Sanchez
http://www.ontrackcoaching.com/
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